FAQs
-
If you've practised meditation alone and felt something was missing, the Intensive offers the next step: self-enquiry done with another person. For three days, you'll be listened to fully, without interruption or judgment, which is something most of us rarely experience.
People come for many reasons. Some want a direct experience of who they are. Others want to clear what they've been carrying, find clarity on a decision, or simply step away from the noise of everyday life. Participants often describe coming away with fresh insight, a lighter mind, a clearer sense of purpose and more honest relationships.
You don't need any experience or beliefs. You just need to be willing to look, and to tell the truth about what you find. Your truth.
-
That depends on what you bring, and every Intensive is different. But participants commonly describe benefits in three areas.
During the Intensive, communicating what's on your mind to someone who fully receives it helps clear what you've been carrying. Many people find their thinking becomes quieter and clearer as the days go on, and some have a direct experience of who they are.
Afterwards, many feel lighter, more focused and more at home in themselves, with a clearer sense of what matters to them.
The skills stay with you too. Learning to listen without interrupting, and to speak honestly without fear of judgment, often changes how people show up in their relationships, at work and at home.
-
Our Intensives are secular. There are no beliefs to adopt, no rituals and no dogma, just the Enlightenment Exercise, practised as Charles and Ava Berner designed it.
Our approach is relational. Roam Within is led by a trained Enlightenment Intensive master who is also a sociologist, with a particular interest in how we come to know ourselves through each other. Every Intensive is staffed by a master and two monitors, so you are always supported.
We care about the conditions. Good sleep, quiet surroundings and time to rest make a real difference during an Intensive. That's why we choose calm, private venues with single or shared rooms, a bathroom for every two people, bedding and towels provided, and prepared vegetarian meals.
And we make it easy to begin. You can try the practice through a free online talk or a day retreat before committing to a full Intensive.
-
A dyad is a structured exercise for two people. You sit facing each other, and one person gives the other an instruction, such as "Tell me who you are."
The person receiving the instruction contemplates the question and communicates whatever arises. The other person simply listens. They don't nod, comment, judge or respond in any way. They just receive what is said.
After five minutes, the listener says "Thank you," and you swap roles. You continue alternating like this for the whole dyad, usually 40 minutes, and then change partners for the next one.
It's not a conversation. Nobody is trying to help, advise or fix anything. It's a rare chance to explore a question honestly while another person gives you their full attention.
-
No. You don't need any experience of meditation, self-enquiry or retreats. Everything is taught from the start, and the staff guide you throughout.
People come to the Intensive from all backgrounds. Some are experienced meditators looking for the next step, and others have never meditated at all. Both are equally welcome, and a beginner's openness is often an advantage.
If you'd like a taste of the practice first, you can join one of our free online talks or a day retreat before booking a full Intensive.
-
Yes. Our Intensives are secular. There are no beliefs to adopt, no rituals and no dogma, and you won't be asked to accept anything you haven't experienced for yourself.
The practice is simple: you contemplate a question and tell another person what you find. The only requirement is honesty about your own experience. Whatever arises, whether thoughts, feelings, memories or insights, is yours, and no one will interpret it for you.
Many participants come with no spiritual background at all. They're simply curious about who they are, and that's all you need.
-
The Enlightenment Intensive was created by Charles and Ava Berner, who held the first one in California in 1968. Charles Berner had been developing communication techniques for years, and he noticed that when people communicated fully and were genuinely received, what they'd been carrying began to dissolve.
The Berners combined this with a much older tradition: self-enquiry, the practice of contemplating questions like "Who am I?" that runs through Zen koan practice and the yogic path of vichara. The result was a new format, the dyad, which lets two people take turns contemplating and communicating while the other listens.
Since 1968, Enlightenment Intensives have been held around the world, and the method has been passed down from master to master. Roam Within is part of that lineage.
-
An Enlightenment Intensive is a three-day residential retreat designed to create the best possible conditions for a direct experience of who you are.
Most of the day is spent in dyads, working with a single question such as "Who am I?" You take turns with a partner: one contemplates and communicates, while the other listens without interrupting or judging. Between dyads there are other forms of contemplation, including walking, working and eating in silence.
The days are long and structured, running from early morning to late evening, and the staff take care of everything else so you can focus fully on the practice. Our Intensives are secular, with no beliefs to adopt, no rituals and no dogma.
-
The Enlightenment Intensive rests on a simple observation by Charles Berner: the mind forms around what hasn't been communicated. Everything we haven't fully expressed, understood or experienced is stored up, and that store gets between us and a direct experience of who we are.
When something in the mind is communicated and genuinely received by another person, it begins to dissolve. This is the yogic principle of burning away the contents of the mind, done here through communication. Alongside it runs the Buddhist principle of discernment: recognising what is mind, setting it aside and staying open to what lies beyond it.
In a dyad, both happen at once. You intend to know the truth of your question, stay open, and communicate what arises. As more of the mind is cleared, the conditions for direct experience grow.
-
The Enlightenment Intensive is for anyone who wants to know themselves more directly.
It suits people who have practised meditation alone and are looking for the next step, and people who have never meditated but are curious about who they really are. It suits those at a crossroads who want clarity, those who feel they've been carrying things they've never fully said, and those who simply want a few days away from the noise to be fully heard.
You don't need any experience, beliefs or spiritual background. What matters is a willingness to look honestly and to stay with the process for three days.
If you're unsure whether it's right for you, get in touch. We're happy to talk it through.
-
Every Intensive is led by a trained Enlightenment Intensive master. Dr Tina Basi trained with Lawrence Noyes, Edda Carabello, and Barry and Emma McGuinness. She is also a cultural sociologist, and has practised self-enquiry since 2009.
Our monitors are experienced Enlightenment Intensive participants who have completed monitor training. They support participants throughout, help the structure run smoothly, and make sure everyone has what they need.
-
You don't need to prepare anything for the practice itself. You'll be taught everything you need when you arrive. A few practical steps will help you settle in, though.
In the weeks before: clear your diary for the whole Intensive and let people know you'll be offline until it ends. If you drink a lot of coffee or alcohol, consider cutting down in the week before, as the days are long and you'll feel the benefit of a clear head. You don’t want to go through withdrawal. Try to arrive well rested.
What to bring: comfortable clothes in layers, shoes for walking outdoors, a water bottle, and any medication you need. Bedding, towels and all meals are provided. Leave jewellery and watches at home if you can.
-
Wear whatever is comfortable for long periods of sitting, and dress in layers so you can adjust as the day goes on. Soft, loose clothing works best. There is no dress code or special clothing.
You'll also spend time walking outdoors in all weathers, so bring a warm jumper, a waterproof jacket and sturdy shoes. Indoor shoes or slippers are useful for the house.
Please leave jewellery and watches at home if you can. Make up, shaving, perfumes, and cologne are not allowed.
-
Bedding, towels and all meals are provided, so you only need a few things. You may wish to bring a water bottle, a notebook, and a jumper or shawl, as body temperature can drop during seated contemplation. You'll also want comfortable clothes in layers, a waterproof jacket and sturdy shoes for walking outdoors, indoor shoes or slippers, toiletries and any medication you need.
Please leave jewellery and watches at home.
-
Please see events page for details.
-
We are always adding new dates and events. Join our mailing list for future workshops, dyad evenings, and more.